Weighing in

I woke up this morning, showered, and stepped outside feeling anew: I am a gay man who can get married [here]! As I started thinking through...

Sometimes I Hate New York for the Same Reasons that I Love It

I was waiting for the G train 20 minutes ago after shopping at Trader Joe's, and a stranger sitting next to me remarked that all the peo...

On Being a Better Gay, No. 1: Out

A few things have happened lately that have had me contemplating my big gay existence. First, I met my partner in prude , who has donated mo...

Slouching towards Xanadu

I came to New York really not knowing anyone. I had put a continent between myself and any blood relatives, and the two acquaintances I had ...

Don't be a jerk.

I was waiting for the train this morning, reading a book, caffeine giddy, and when the train pulled in I did my customary sweep of the avail...